LADIES.....CAN WE TALK FOR A MOMENT.

LADIES....CAN WE TALK FOR A MOMENT?😌

If u are  ready then let's proceed, I think it's high time we prove our men wrong...yes those that says women are cheap and are easily deceived.
As a lady never u make any man feel he's doing you and your parents good by seeking for your hand in marriage.( if u wandering how)

1. Don't be too fast to say yes  to any man..
2. Stop demanding for money and things from him unnecessarily...he would loose his respect for u.
3. Stop throwing your self at any man(learn to control yourself around men)
4. Find something doing ,don't just sit down at home all day making up and changing cloths, even if u aren't schooling. Get busy with one job or the other. You too can be successful.
6. Dress properly stop exposing your body here and there..it drives serious men away and attracts whores and pesters.
7 . control your tongue and be self discipline.

Now before u open your mouth and say yes..
Read quickly👇

 The types of men u shouldn't say yes to!

* A WOMANIZER/ DRUNKARD:
 some will he's only womanizing cause he isn't yet married,when we get married he will stop
I pity u sis, a womanizer can never change whether married or not! It's takes the grace of of God and a genuine repented heart to stop it.

* AN ANGRY TYPE AND WOMAN BEATER:

 Dear sis u guys are still in courtship/ relationship and he's already beating u whether slap or whatever.. And u because of love remained and say after marriage he will stop( its seems u don't love your life)u better borrow leg and 🏃🏃🏃🏃

* DON'T MARRY HIM OUT OF PITY:

some will say after all he has done for me....I don't love him but if I say no now he might commit suicide.
Noooo! He won't( a man who loves u won't attached condition to it). E.g if u accept to marry me I will transform the  lives of ur family and background 😒. Never u agree on marry by contact/ condition.

* AN UNBELIEVER WHO IS TOTALLY FAR FROM GOD:

 Dear Ladies and Christian sisters don't because he's wealthy and handsome, u decided to marry an unbeliever forgetting what the bible says  in 2 Corinthians 6:14-16. More so, the righteousness in  a man should be ur first interest then other qualities follows  ( be wise in choice making) . That's if u want to make heaven at last.

* DON'T MARRY OUT OF FRUSTRATION/ PRESSURE:

 Don't say coz my friends are all married, I don't have choice, he's really disturbing me, lemme say yes and rest,and so on.
Meanwhile, u don't have the  same destiny with your friend even twins don't have destiny. Some are destined to marry young while others are destined to marry a bit old. Pray well sis so u won't loose focus or make mistake.

* NEVER U MARRY A WOMAN TESTER:

 Some will say u will have to come and spend a little time with me so I can know u better and some ladies out of desperation will park their load to go and leave with the so called husband to be.
 After being used and dump such Lady will start crying and shouting men are wicked!
Pls dear sis any man who is serious and responsible wouldn't go through the wrong way with u..he be will sure to do things right, maturely and openly without wasting time. Be wise!

* A MAN WITHOUT FUTURE/ GOAL:
If all he does is tell u "I love u" without caring about your future, or what u have in hands that would brighten your future.. Pls quit coz he has no good intention for u..such man will make u his slave after marriage.

In conclusion: maintain a good relationship with God.. Coz if  u aren't in a good relationship with him u will loose it all.
Even when the right person comes ,u will be too blinded to see him😉
That's why Many are deceived/ missing it today coz the devil has taken advantage of their weakness and unseriousness with God to feed them with bad dreams and false revelation through the lust  their hearts.
Put God first before all
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Lemme take a break here🚶🚶🚶